Thursday, August 11, 2011

Movies, Quotable Movies













We watch movies.
Old movies.
A lot.
Our family was raised on the crazy antics of Tony Curtis, Natalie Wood and Jack Lemmon in The Great Race.
The hilarity of Danny Kaye in The Court Jester.
The magical song and dance of  Gene Kelly and Cyd Charisse in Brigadoon.
The comic timing of Red Skelton in The Fuller Brush Man.
And these are only four of the hundreds we sat through together as a family as they were growing up.
Inevitably, these movies had a great influence on our lives.
When the characters made mistakes and paid dearly for them, my family suffered alongside. When a story ended, inevitably, in triumph, we celebrated.
We lived their lives. Learned their lessons. Grieved and cheered with them.
The stories became very real to us.
We discussed them endlessly.
The lessons learned. The principles taught.
And our conversation became peppered with noteworthy lines.
I do mean peppered.
Our youngest son, three-year-old Tristan, was playing with a small, battery-powered railroad with a friend. "Push the button, Max!" (The Great Race)
Friend, "My name's not Max."
People visiting our household would often gape in confusion as quotes cropped up in the conversation.
We knew what was being said.
They didn't.
Oops.
Occasionally, someone would join us who knew that the answer to, "And there was much rejoicing" was a subdued, "Yay!" (with appropriate hand movements) from Search for the Holy Grail.
Or that, when asked to do something specific, would know to quip, "I'm smokin' a salmon!" from Oscar.
And that, with the end of a meal, the appropriate gratitude was voiced by the words, "The meal was good. The wine was excellent. I must send the Cardinal a note." (Again, with appropriate hand gesture, this time, hand kissing.) A noteworthy quote, though we weren't wine-drinkers, from The Three Musketeers.
We were the family who would break, unexpectedly, into song.
And everyone would know the words.
Occasionally, outside of our home, others would take note of our unique (note that I'm using the PC term) customs.
For good or bad . . .
Our daughter, Tiana, was in kindergarten.
Almost five.
Her teacher heard her singing, "Goin' Courtin'. Goin' Courtin'." (From Seven Brides for Seven Brothers.)
She pulled her aside and asked her to repeat it.
Tiana obliged.
The teacher frowned and asked her where she had heard that.
Tiana stared at her.
This was probably her first experience with someone who didn't eat, breathe and sleep movies.
So, not like her family at all.
"It's from Seven Brides for Seven Brothers." she said finally. "Just before they learn how to dance."
Her teacher was puzzled. "Do you know what it means?"
"What?"
"Courting."
Tiana smiled at her. "Oh, yes, it means 'dating'."
"Ah." Still puzzled, her teacher let her go.
But brought up the subject at our next parent-teacher conference.
I have to point out that it wasn't the only time I had heard from confused elementary school teachers.
Moving on . . .
But as the kids grew into junior and senior high school, our family quirk became more acknowledged.
Even occasionally appreciated.
Especially when a teacher would pose a question or repeat a quote from an old movie or program and our child was the only one in the class who knew the answer.
Or who laughed.
They became the universally-acknowledged 'experts' on old movies.
And, more importantly, quotes from movies.
It was a fun way to raise a family.
It is a fun way to live.
I think its time for another one.
"Push the button, Max!"

5 comments:

  1. I grew up with old movies too.. my mom loves them. Some of our favorites(my mother's and mine) are Doris Day, Debbie Reynolds, Dean Martin & Jerry Lewis, Jimmy Stewart, Bob Hope, and you can't forget Elvis. My mom loves Elvis movies! The list goes on and on. As a result, my kids are very familiar with old movies as well. I think my youngest boy has Chitty Chitty Bang Bang memorized! He's watched it at least a dozen times. :)

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  2. Plenty of college aged boys out there quoting Monty Python as a way of life....you are not alone. The values portrayed in those old movies were pretty solid when combined with a solid family to check them. Unfortunately most movies these days are morally bankrupt and quoteable rarely. They are HUGELY manipulative, I know since I worked on them in Hollywood for years. Get a character loved, kill em off, get a reaction kind of thing. Our family has sworn off TV and most movies for 11 years now and none of us seem to miss it. In fact we are now good at quoting each other and finding all the drama, romance and adventure we need in the time between breakfast and bedtime. Just watching part of any given show these days (inevitable) has us in tears laughing at the things they do to keep you attention.

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  3. I have seen a few old movies but not very many. We couldn't afford movies when I was a kids, but I have gotten a few DVDs.

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  4. I found The Best Old Movies for Families to be a very good reference guide for those looking to expand their film palette and expose their children to classic movies.

    While I did think The Hangover was quite funny, I would feel much more comfortable watching Buster Keaton with my daughter rather than Zack Gilifianakis.

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  5. LOve the old Jerry Lewis movies...and the B & W oldies...thanks for that list above..made me smile!

    Thanks for sharing at NOBH>

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