Sarah, my grandmother, on her wedding day 1905. |
Life was just . . . different back then.
1901.
In rural Utah, one made do.
And soldiered through.
Later, perhaps, one learned the whole story . . .
Sixteen-year-old Sarah, fifth of eight children and oldest
surviving girl still at home, was put in charge of her younger siblings while
their mother went to the big city for several months of formal midwifery
training.
It was a time of learning.
Hard work.
And learning.
Did I mention learning?
Things were going surprisingly well.
Then youngest sister, twelve-year-old May, developed a sore throat.
A bad sore throat. That shed white ‘pieces’.
Older sister, Sarah, thought she merely had a bad throat and
nursed her as best she could.
Without any outside influences.
Like the local Health Officer.
She had her sister “gargle everything she could think of,
but it was still very bad.”
At length, she sought the advice of her grandmother, who
lived nearby, and who did what she could to help.
Finally, when May was nearly better, Sarah’s Grandmother
called the Health Officer.
Who told Sarah she had just nursed her sister through Diphtheria.
Maybe sometimes we’re better off not knowing . . .
Woah. Just... woah. If that had been me, I probably would've spent a good few days panicking and rocking back and forth...
ReplyDeleteI have a hard enough time with my kids having just a cold!
OMG, and it's highly contagious. Can you just imagine if that had spread through the house? With mom gone? Yikes.
ReplyDeletePeople grew up fast a century ago. Really fast. It's hard to understand just how things were, really. Your stories of older generations give us an idea, though.
ReplyDeletePeople worked hard didn't they? From a very early age.
ReplyDeleteAnd yes, knowing is sometimes more hindrance than help.
Wow....that's all I got.
ReplyDeleteWow. Like Delores, that's all I've got too.
ReplyDeleteIt's true though. Sometimes we're braver when we don't know what exactly we're up against.
ReplyDeleteI wonder if one of the things she had her sister gargle with had anything to do with her recovery. Glad that she did - and that Sarah lived to be so pretty on her wedding day!
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ReplyDeleteMaybe better not to know, yes....when it gives you the freedom to focus on one day at a time and the things you can do, rather than what might happen. Of course when you can know (or you can google) that's not going to happen. V thought- provoking.
ReplyDeleteIt always amazes me how much fortitude some people have. They can survive almost anything. I always love these stories. Of course, I love all of your stories.
ReplyDeleteI'm impressed, and I do long for the days when we really took responsibility seriously. Thank you for adding this post to my Best of the Best by the Best!
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