Wednesday, July 15, 2020

When Freedom Isn't


The following is based on a real discussion with my—then—fifteen-year-old son, who didn’t believe in the rules his parents—or anyone ‘official’—were trying to enforce.
All he wanted was his ‘freedom’!
It turned out to be an interesting discussion.
And even more pertinent in 2020 than it was in 1995!

“Freedom’s what I want!” he said. “And what I really need!
“No one to tell me what to do, and none to intercede.
“Just let me live my life,” he said. “And I’ll let you live yours.
“I won’t be forced to follow rules or do things I abhor!”

“That’s ‘freedom’ in your point of view? Life’s just a big buffet?
“Just take the things you want?” I said. “And never have to pay?”
He puffed his fifteen-year-old chest and struck an ‘adult’ pose,
“One day you’ll see I’m right. Obeying rules really blows!”

“To do away with rules and laws? Well that sounds really swell!
“But remember while you’re doing this, th’other guy is as well!
“So guard your ‘stuff’ with all your might, and guard yourself as well,
“Cause just like you, your neighbour’s free to steal or raise some hell.”

“I know there’s lots of things you want to do when you’re fifteen,
“And rules might sound restrictive, dull, and, let’s just face it, mean,
“They hold you down and really seem as bonds that tie and chafe
“But let me tell you, Son,” I said. “These rules will keep you safe!”


Once a month, our Karen challenges each of us to rhyme,
And we try to fulfill this challenge each and every time,
This month, because of all that's going on both far and near,
We felt that Freedom was the topic 'bout which we should hear.

Karen of Baking In A Tornado: Short and Clear
Lydia of Cluttered Genius: Cost of Freedom

6 comments:

  1. I'm still having this conversation with my older son today (about laws). It's difficult in the current climate in our country because the conversation is about not just the rules but how to change them and what to do to be sure that those in charge of our complicity are held to them as well.

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  2. Let him know all he has to do is talk to someone who has been robbed and he may see why the rule of law is important.

    And it is just as important for those in charge to remember that it is the law that puts them in charge, so they answer to it as well.

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  3. It has always been and will always be that wanting independence comes to all young people. It is natural. The good thing is when they finally do leave (sigh/hurray), they often want to return.

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  4. How I wish that the myriad of fifteen year olds (despite their chronological age) could learn this lesson.

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  5. Rules are there for a reason, a good reason, which most children come to appreciate once they have children of their own.

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  6. Excellent reminders and lessons here! (I love love love your turns of phrase, for the record.)

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