A guest post from little brother, Blair!
I tell this story with a certain amount of hesitance because it demonstrates how hard headed I can be. A number of years ago when I was in grade school, we were rapidly approaching Christmas. When I talked with my friends, the main topic that ruled our conversations was what we wanted.
This one particular Christmas season, all of us seemed to be having trouble with a member of our class. This person did not come from the best home life and I believe acted out because of what was happening there. As young kids in elementary school we didn’t understand this. We just thought this person was annoying because it was their desired behavior. Unfortunately, we were not kind in return.
During the beginning of the Christmas season, some of my friends and I were in Sunday school class, engaged in a conversation that involved our frustration with our classmate’s negative behavior. We were not saying very kind things about this person. Kind of ironic to talk about this in Sunday school.
Our dear kind and gracious Sunday school teacher didn’t begin her lesson like usual, but let the class talk for a few minutes. As I think about it now, I’m sure she was disappointed in our attitudes. She probably asked herself, “have any of these kids heard anything that I have been trying to teach them this year?”
Finally, she called the class to order and she said that we need to be charitable to other people. We all agreed. Then she said that we are going to put this into practice by preparing a Christmas package with special treats and gifts for the family of our troublesome classmate. We immediately protested. Somehow we forgot the lesson about charity. Thankfully, our wonderful teacher persisted and we all agreed to contribute and picked an evening where we could take the package to the doorstep of our classmate’s home.
The idea was to set the package on the doorstep, ring their bell and then run away so they could not see who had left it.
Finally the day came and we all brought gifts and placed them in the package. Luckily, our classmate’s family lived 2 houses from the corner of the block so our getaway would be easy. Our Sunday school teacher parked her car around the corner and we took the package to the house of our classmate. Our little caper worked like clockwork which is amazing for young elementary age school boys. We set the package on the step, rang the bell, ran down the street and around the corner to our Sunday school teacher’s car and piled in.
Our Sunday school teacher immediately drove away and we waited for a few minutes a block away. Then, we drove by our classmate’s home and saw that the father was still looking out the front door onto the street.
The feeling that we had after that experience picked us all up and filled us with joy. From that point, Christmas began to take on a new perspective for me.
I also started to see my classmate from a different perspective as well. I started to realize not everyone had a wonderful home like I grew up in and I should be more considerate of other individuals because their challenges were MUCH worse than the ones that I had. I also learned that the best Christmases were the ones that I was able to do something for others. That brings the greater joy.