A guest post by Steven Clark.
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My oldest daughter has cultivated a new passion this summer:
riding her bike.
As a bicycle commuter, I could not be a happier father than to have my girl be as enthused about cycling as I am.
Every opportunity
she has to ride, she'll take it.
I used to ride my bike with her, but
found that I could keep up with her just as well by walking.
Earlier in the season, she did quite a bit of walking over riding
because she had a paralyzing fear of hills. Didn't matter if the hill was
a steep grade or slight enough to barely get a marble rolling on its own, she
had to walk down.
After a couple days of this, I went over braking with
her and then encouraged her to try braking to slow her descent.
She still
persisted in walking down hills.
Before I chided her disbelief in her own
abilities, I remembered someone else who had trouble with hills: my sister.
Summer of '86 or so.
We were living in Petawawa, Ontario at
the time and bikes were our vehicles of independence. Wherever we wanted
to go, we went.
One of the destinations of choice was Petawawa Beach,
renamed Black Bear Beach. For some odd reason, whenever we went there,
there was never a lifeguard, which added an element of adventure, but the ride
there was what made me think of my daughter.
Comparing my memory to Google Maps, the final turn to get to
Petawawa - sorry, Black Bear - Beach went down a fairly steep hill. The
adventurous - and scary - part was close to the bottom of the hill where the road
transitioned from paved to gravel.
My step brother and I had no problem
getting down the hill. We just alternated between coasting and braking,
never letting our speed get much beyond a crawl.
My sister went much
quicker, and not because she was a daredevil with a death wish, but simply
because she was frightened and froze up.
In retrospect, I'm surprised she
survived since this was the time before bicycle helmets were common and
mandatory for youth.
As my sister put it when I asked her about the
experience, she only remembered going down the hill and then waking up in the
hospital.
My sister made a full recovery, and soon we were off to the beach
again.
When we reached the hill, she was still shaken, but determined to
try again. I demonstrated the safe way to go down the hill, and told her
what I was doing as I went down. Coast, brake, coast, brake, coast,
brake...
WHOOSH!
She zoomed past me at the bottom of the hill and I
realized her biggest mistake. Closing her eyes when she got scared.
This led to another crash, but not quite as spectacular as the first.
My memory may be faint, but I don't remember any other bicycle
excursions to the beach. I seem to recall we went with my parents every
time afterwards.
After this recollection of blood and dust, I figured it would be
best to let my daughter take hills at her own pace, and not push her to ride
down them regardless of the grade.
I am happy to report that my girl now delights in riding down
small hills, but still dismounts for steep ones.
Oh my girl!
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We really need to get her a bigger bike...
She;s a keeper! That bike . . . yeah . . .
DeleteI am surprised more of us didn't end up in the hospital - or worse - in the days before helmets! Great story.
ReplyDeleteI know! No safety equipment at all. How did we survive!
DeleteI lived my bike riding years in a completely flat town, no danger at all.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad your girl is taking things at her own pace. It's the best way.
Yep. Cautious. The best quality for a little girl!
DeleteI loved my bike, still do!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your engaging story.
Love,
Chris
I loved your bike too! Till I got mine, that is! :)
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